- Let me begin this post by telling you (my dear readers) that I had one of the best dates ever in my life. It was one of those where you could really talk to him on the same frequency. Meaning what? Meaning, we have had similar life experiences so we sort of knew how good or bad or difficult or easy was it to be in that instance. Take, for example, going through passport controls. If you have not had any trouble with your passport, then if I told you my anecdotes, you would only go, “Yeah, too bad that happened to you.” Or if you even had not possessed a passport nor been anywhere, then you sure wouldn’t know what is it they do, these immigration police. Anyway, my point is (apologies if I’m not making it any clear), it is simply refreshing to meet someone who I could share endless and similar life stories.
- Catsudon & I were chatting online on Yahoo! Messenger and we sort of wandered on the fact that her hubby (bless you, if you’re reading this!) is younger than her, Catsudon. I then told her that I sort of have this theory on men and the relationship between their ages and how they act in life. See, this was a result of my own encounters with different men but then again, it isn’t an exact science. Plus, the fact that I’ve read too much into the Mars & Venus therapies, might not sound plausible to some people. But anyway, here goes. See, in my opinion, men generally act several years younger than their true and actual age, especially when they’re past their mid-20s. Yeah, a man in his forties may have actually taken a mortgage, bought a house, drive a fancy Merc or an Audi car, but he deals with relationships like he’s 25.
- The bloke I mentioned at the beginning of this post (the one who I had one of the best dates of my life) is actually going back to his homeland in 6 weeks’ time. Which leads me to my third and final musing for today…just when you think you’ve found “the perfect fit” you’d find yourself either seeing him off at the airport or you are suddenly considering relocating. Mr (Seemingly) Right does not always seem to be in the same country, let alone the same continent. Oh well, the attitude that I take if that happens….carpe diem! Enjoy it while it lasts! Who knows, you might actually see yourselves re-enacting that scene on the last episode of Friends, with Rachel & Ross…
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Who’s the guy? Cutie? I should catch you on chat soon!
hi charl! true! generally, men do act several years younger than their real age as you say. i have seen it in guys i have dated. my husband, however is no ordinary man. his experiences very early in life forced him to mature earlier so he is, in fact, the opposite of our generalization.
between the two of us i am more immature… i consider myself one very blessed woman!
grabe! buti na lang i always read your blog! i’m now so updated with what’s going on with you. in its own time, charlita, the right guy will come and he won’t have to leave the country…ikaw naman ang iiwan sa kanya! hehehe! but seriously, the right man is out there. you have yet to find him!
:laughing: kakatawa naman kayo…sabi ko na nga ba mag-re-react kung maglalagay ako ng chika about my not-so-real lovelife! :tilt: anyway…
karen…cutie? hmm, well he resembles eric bana. puwede na ba?
catsudon…you are indeed lucky to have found someone that very emotionally mature. hang on to that one! :love7:
pinggay…the hopeless romantic in me is making me hang on to that truth. most of the time i wish that it’s now rather than later. atchaka, bakit ako ang hahanap sa kanya? dapat sya ang humanap sa akin! kaya lang di ganun eh…:crying: oh well………….
Aba cutie nga! Picture! Just send it to me by e-mail so you won’t get found out, hehehe!
wala eh…